Anyone else getting disconnected from lobbies ~30-60 sec after joining?

So, this is a really weird issue I’ve been having with my game, and I haven’t been able to solve it while looking through old posts, so I’m starting a new thread.

Basically, when I try to join my friend’s lobby (either via invite or the PS4’s “Join Game” option), I will connect to his lobby but after about 30 seconds or so, I get a message saying that I lost connection to the host. The same happens when I host and he tries to join me. The weird part is, both of us can join other peoples’ lobbies, and other people can also join lobbies either one of us hosts. The issue only occurs when one of us tries to host the other. Has anyone else had this issue, and/or been able to solve it?

Yeah just started happening to me. First lag issues then i cant move then i get kicked. I jump back in but by then its too late