Hosting Lobby = ∞ que

Hello, my issue is that whenever I try to go in ANY matchmaking que I get stuck there for ever, without even finding a single player. The weird thing however is that if I join a friends lobby, no matter who, we que and get a full team of players in a minute tops. I’ve seen topics about this happening in Australia, but the thing is; I live in the Netherlands and have a 50mbp/s connection.

All this basically disallows me to play the game when I have no friends who play the game online. And yes I tried verify integrity game cache.