No!
I’m an 34 year old man, If I let children take a nap : I play at a solo game.
It’s only when I know I will don’t be disturbed during an hour that I’m playing a multiplayer pvp game.
Yes I play less often, but I can be a Good Uncle , and an non toxic player.
(No it’s not my child ,but I already have to keep them for more than a week straight).
Riot (leagues of legend) has found the punishment : Deserter penalty : last time you launch a game :you will have to wait 5 minutes before joining the Queue.(If you do it again 15, and 30 after ,etc,etc…until you get ban)
Some competitive FPS use the same solutions.
They don’t care the reason (technic, child or whatever spawn into your life…) : You leave : You are punish.
I’m Sorry, It’s Not a mixed message :
It’s just say : if you can’t be at it during an hours straight Now,
play later, play less.
But don’t you facing the fact your ruining the fun of 4 other players because you can’t manage your time.
IT’S NOT THERE CHILD ,THEY DON’T DECIDE TO HAVE IT ,THEY DON’T HAVE TO FACE THE CHOICE OF YOUR CHOICE OF LIVING.
They don’t havee to lost 15 to 30 minutes because : YOUR choices ruin sometimes the only moment they can get to play in the week.
I play at some moba (lol,Smite) and some FPS (TF2,Paladins) since few years, I 've been AFK one time for conetions reasons.
I get a Penalty,
I thinks this penalty is Fair,
Yes on counterpart I play less than 4 times a week.
But it’s normal : everybody, not only ME, have the right to play at the game with a Fair chance to get a good moment.
If I’m ruining the other people pleasure because my connections is ■■■■■■, or because I have something else to do : it’s fair to be punish.