There are plenty of posts expressing different opinions that haven’t been flagged.
I dare anyone on this thread to go to reddit, correct someone using the wrong pronouns, and see the massive down voting you get. This is literally the only forum on the internet where the anything remotely close to the opposite might be true. You won’t get mass downvotes for using the wrong pronoun (because unlike reddit, you either care enough to flag or leave it be), but you’ll be coddled by the mods to please adjust your language, and have over 800 posts wherein you can make your case to the community and not be banned. AND STILL, so many are incensed over this.
Am I missing something? It seems like we can boil this thread down to three lines
It’s such a small thing, why are you making such a big deal out of it? (he/she crowd)
It’s such a small thing, why are you being so obtuse about it? (they/them crowd)