Thank you Derch for the info
You can also integrate this place into your blog as well. @abvex know more about how to do that than I do.
You can check out the software here https://www.discourse.org/
It requires Ruby/Rails install on your server, the installation can be a little complex if you don’t know what you are doing.
There is also a wordpress plugin https://github.com/discourse/wp-discourse
Thank you very much @Abvex. I have a VPS and I’ll make sure Ruby is installed. I may pay the $99 and have discourse install it for me.
I’ve noticed notifications are taking a while to come through today. Have had a couple of likes on a post I made yesterday that still haven’t shown up in my notifications. Not a biggie, but thought I’d share!